The Look
Yes it’s true that guys are initially attracted to the way a woman looks, but it does not mean that a woman or girl needs to look in a certain way only. In fact, men are attracted to a plethora of different traits and not just what you may be telling yourself. It is so sad when women think that only a specific look, shape or size will attract men. It is not the case. As long as you look healthy and relatively fit (I did not say skinny, I just said relatively fit, which is a really broad span of sizes), men will find you attractive provided you know you are and you carry yourself as if you had known all along.
So, find out what’s really good about your look, your unique trait, your unique features, and make the most of them, highlight them with your chosen look. Your eyes, your smile, your skin, your lips, your arms, your legs, your waste and so on, whatever it is, highlight it and be proud of it. Soon enough men will notice it too! Do not compare yourself to others but focus on your uniqueness. This is the only golden rule to follow.
The Voice
Whilst you must always avoid sounding or looking like his fan (if you do he’ll get bored of you), you must show interest to what he wants to tell you about himself and, of course, you must listen to it all with attentive ears. It’s a key trait for anybody who wants others to fall in love with them (the ability to listen, really listen) and it’s one you should perfect. Moreover, getting to know the real him will allow you to decide if it’s him you really want or if you should keep looking.
The Comfort Zone
The key during all of your dates is to make sure he’s comfortable with you. You need him to believe that it’s really easy to be with you. Such comfort does not come from agreeing with everything he says or doing things to please him. It comes from letting him be what he wants to be without judgement or censorship. Again, this will allow you to have his heart really easily and, at the same time, to understand who he really is and decide if he’s the person you really want as a companion.
The type of date is really irrelevant. You could be walking on the beach, sipping a coffee on a bench or hiking a mountain, or anything else, as long as you are both having fun. What counts is that he feels comfortable and at ease with you.
